Performance Anxiety

Hello fellow guitarists. 

I, in an earlier time of my life, played sport at an elite level sometimes playing in front of hundreds of people. I decided to take up classical guitar at the tender age of 66 and I have found that unlike in my younger years when I would look forward with excitement to performing, I now suffer massively with performance anxiety. And it is getting worse. Playing for friends, family and even my guitar teacher has become something that I would much sooner run and hide than put myself through. I play by myself and record some of my playing and am, for the most part, happy with my playing. But what I do in private I struggle to reproduce in public. In golf I think they call what I suffer from, THE YIPS. Whatever the term I certainly know that my confidence is virtually non existed. 

I have never taken any form on medication for performance anxiety, however I have heard that a natural supplement called PERFORMZEN is suppose to be very good and is taken by musicians. Has anyone heard of this supplement or have use this supplement? 

I have been trying all the non medicated ways like deep breathing positive thinking etc etc etc with zero success. I am sure I'm not new with this problem and would appreciate any advice given. 

 

Cheers

Michelle

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    • Performer, Teacher @Conservatory M. de Falla and member of Nuntempe Ensamble GQ
    • Ariel.1
    • 3 days ago
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    I have just posted an article I published a while ago, that I feel may be of interest to all of you. It's not directly about Performance Anxiety but it is related to it in many ways and, forgive the presumption, but I feel it can be a good read to make things move in a maybe different direction. 

    https://guitar-community.tonebase.co/t/q6y1tf4/the-space-between-sounds

    I hope you'll enjoy it. 

        

      • Javier_Elizondo
      • 3 days ago
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       Thank you very much. 

      • Mark_de_Beer
      • 2 days ago
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       Thank you Ariel for sharing this text. It is inspirational to read and then to ponder upon and try and take away lessons from it.

      • Performer, Teacher @Conservatory M. de Falla and member of Nuntempe Ensamble GQ
      • Ariel.1
      • 2 days ago
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        Thanks for reading!! I'm certainly glad what I know can be of use. 

      • joosje
      • 2 days ago
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       This article is so inspiring, revealing and refreshing. Thank you for sharing it with us!
       

      • Performer, Teacher @Conservatory M. de Falla and member of Nuntempe Ensamble GQ
      • Ariel.1
      • 2 days ago
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       you are very welcomed! thanks for your time reading it and your feedback!

    • Marilyn
    • 2 days ago
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    I like to think of my performances as a gift of love to those who are listening.  My playing may not be perfect, but it is heartfelt.  I prefer to set my ego aside, and let the music flow.  I do spend a lot of time and focus trying to express what I intend, but in a performance, I try to just let the music move through me.  

      • Javier_Elizondo
      • Yesterday
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      Hi, I get what you’re saying. Let me know if I understood it right: the key is to have the piece super well prepared, played before without mistakes, so that you can focus on expressing the music instead of worrying about what comes next.

      The problem for me is that I get so nervous, I forget the next part several times while performing—even when I actually know the piece really well. How to be calm in order to no keeping forgetting the piece while one is playing.

      • Michelle_Roper
      • Yesterday
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       The problem is that sometimes that gift of love is rejected by those listening. When you play for an audience whether you like it or not, you are judged. That is the source of performance anxiety. And I admire those who play with an "I couldn't care less what people think" attitude. 

      • Performer, Teacher @Conservatory M. de Falla and member of Nuntempe Ensamble GQ
      • Ariel.1
      • Yesterday
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       Hi, Michelle... I'm trying to think of things I can tell you to help you... have you seen your private messages? I sent you a couple of message a while back. 

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